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And Then He’s a Hunter

Editor’s Note: The story you’re about to read is blunt and unvarnished and more graphic than our usual hunting fare. If you’re sensitive to this sort of thing you might consider skipping it.

I know many of you reading this don’t hunt. But even so, I’ll bet you’ve heard the one where the hunter bags his first buck. How the opportunity came as a surprise after he’d tried and failed for what seemed like so long. How the emotions came in waves as he approached the downed animal: joy, sadness, triumph, in no particular order. The hunter is usually a boy and there’s usually a turn in the story where his dad comes and they hug – the smell of wool as his nose is crammed against his father’s chest. Then some ritual: a prayer for the fallen deer, maybe blood smeared on his cheeks.

And then he’s a hunter.

These stories are resonant because many of us were lucky enough to have some version of this experience. Look, we say, to all who didn’t. This changed me. This is a part of who I am. But life is complicated – hunting is complicated – and things don’t always follow the script.

Hiya shot his first buck last weekend – 13 yards with an arrow. He’s not a boy. He’s 71. Hunted his whole life, but just never connected. He’s a kind and affable man and everyone in camp has offered him their best hunting spot in the hope that it would mean his first deer; we’ve rooted him on for decades.

So, of course, when the day finally came he was in camp alone. I’d been up with him Friday night and hunted with him Saturday, but I left that evening and went back to town. He stayed there Saturday night, and Sunday morning he crept out to his ground blind. Picture him ambling slowly out into the morning mist on bad knees from a career scrambling up and down telephone poles, a picture of persistence walking into a moment that was going to change him forever. He got within a hundred yards of where he was going and thought “I know the deer are around but I never see them from that blind.” He changed plans at the last minute and set up south of his regular spot, thinking that when the deer came off the hill they’d see the blind, turn, and walk right past him.

He nailed it. That’s exactly what happened.

I was sitting in town on Sunday morning, reading the newspaper at the kitchen table, when the call came. I could hear Hiya’s voice trembling a bit, jangling with nerves and soul. Being a natural storyteller, he took his sweet time getting to the point, burying the lede again and again.

“So then the second deer turned...”

“DID YOU GET HIM!?”

“...and I considered drawing...”

Yes, he’d shot the deer. Yes, there was blood. By then I was already in my truck, roaring towards his son’s house.

These are big woods we hunt, and it took J – the son – and I more than an hour to get up to that little hardwood nob near the top of the mountain. We found Hiya sitting on the tree stump where he’d shot the deer – once he’d confirmed the deer had been hit he’d gone back and stayed put. He told us the story again in rich detail. The first deer was bigger, but this forkhorn was big enough. The deer had “busted” Hiya at 13 yards – look, right there. He’d hung a flag on a tree. They’d locked eyes and he’d fired an arrow into the deer’s brisket and the deer turned and wisped away like a puff of smoke. “I’ve never seen a deer that close,” he said, his eyes shining.

When do you start hunting if you grow up rural – 12? 13? So almost 60 years leading up to this one pregnant moment. Yes, a forkhorn would do.

We started following the blood trail, J and I coursing the foreground like a couple of rangy hounds, Hiya walking as far as the last splotch of blood and then standing there as a reference point. The blood was steady at first but then slowed. We slowed, too, eyes straining to pick up legitimate blood as the deer ran through red maple leaves.

Archery is a crude form of hunting. Whereas a bullet breaks bone, and the rifle shot itself can carry a hydrostatic shock wave that can literally knock a deer’s feet out from under him, the archer selectively aims for a pass-through shot in the front third. The goal is to hit a vital organ, and short of that, to open a hole in both sides so the deer will lose blood and expire. You’re not supposed to take straight-on shots because there’s too much bone to deflect the arrow, and even if you miss the shoulders, there’s a good chance the arrow won’t exit, and you won’t have a very big hole. If the animal bleeds internally you might never find him.

About 5 minutes into our tracking exercise, we saw all this written in the blood. As the trail got harder to follow, Hiya couldn’t stay behind on the last mark. He started coursing with us, the triumph draining out of him in clotted clumps. On his knees rubbing red maple leaves to determine whether the crimson was pigment or blood until it was all pigment.

Two hours, then three, then four. When we lost the blood trail for good we just started circling, looking for a dead deer. At first this was disciplined, a regular skirmish line. Eventually it was just three men moving randomly. Grasping at straws. Knowing deep down the gig was up but moving fast to avoid having to contemplate the thought.

At dark we met back at the woods road, and I rode down the mountain with Hiya in the UTV. His legs were cramping up and he was in pain – all senses of that word. “I’ve never seen a deer that close,” he repeated, his voice empty. And I didn’t know what to say. I told him this had happened to me once, and I knew what he was feeling. I gave him a clumsy pep talk, telling him that the trick to hunting is to make a mistake, learn from it, then get back up the next day and try again. Even as I was saying it I could tell the words were all wrong. He wasn’t thinking about hunting, he was worried about that deer.

I don’t know why I feel so compelled to share this brutal story with you. I guess part of it is cathartic, to put it out there knowing that other hunters have felt this pain and will empathize. Part is a public service: here’s a cautionary tale to think about before you let the arrow fly. Part is just that old riff on how life is often more complicated than any cliché.

That night Hiya stared at the ceiling, grieving for the deer that had a miss-shot arrow shaft flush against his fading heart. This is another way one can become a hunter, though I wouldn’t wish it on anyone.

Discussion *

Nov 30, 2013

Thank you Dave. Thank you for writing this story. I know Hiya.

Brian
Oct 21, 2013

I’ve had this happen to me once - a deer that I hit and didn’t recover - one that I never found out was whether it had survived my arrow or not.  It is not a good feeling and I wouldn’t wish it on any hunter. 

All we can do as hunters - especially bow hunters - is to practice, practice, practice during the off-season. Know our maximum effective range and NEVER shoot beyond that at live game.  Never take shots other than broadside or quartering away with a bow.  Never take shots at moving deer with a bow. 

If all bow hunters followed these four steps there wouldn’t be half the unrecovered deer that there are. 

The rise in states allowing leashed dog trackers is a mixed blessing in my opinion.  On the positive side, a well-trained dog can find most deer that humans with their limited capabilities would never find.  This allows hunters to put tags on deer they wouldn’t otherwise be able to put a tag on.  Then again, nothing is ever wasted in nature.  A deer that dies and is not recovered will become food for numerous creatures - just not the hunter and their family.  And I wonder if many hunters now take less than perfect shots thinking, “If I don’t find him I can always call a dog tracker.”  This was a great read - and eloquently sums up a feeling which I pray I’ll never have again.

Dan Williams
Oct 21, 2013

Dave, Beautiful piece!  I appreciated reading this immensely this morning, and I’m feeling (and sharing) the pain of our mutual friend.

There’s not much that even a good friend can say to take away the sort of pain, sadness, and frustration that losing a deer can bring.

Bowhunting is never a sure thing.  There are complications that can arise as swiftly and silently as the deer itself.  These things are just plain part of the deal.  The best that we can do is learn from each experience and move forward to the next opportunity.

Shake it off and get your tail back out in the woods, Hiya!  There will be another chance - a time for redemption.

Be well, and good luck during the rest of your season!

 

 

Grant Taylor
Oct 21, 2013

Dave - Great story,sad story. Some of us have been there. Should be required reading for all hunters new or old. Tell Hiya the sadness will eventually fade.

Daniel Little
Oct 20, 2013

I don’t hunt and don’t want to. But I know something about the feeling of the lost-deer aftershock . . . from hitting one with a car. We didn’t know for sure what the impact had done. We couldn’t find it. We still wonder, vacillating between damn-the-deer—it ran RIGHT IN FRONT OF US, leaping off a bank from above-car height, there was absolutely nothing we could do—to OMG, we hurt it, did we hurt enough to kill it mercifully or is it out there suffering a hideous death, or was it just a glancing blow and it’s fine and the shock was all on us?

We’ll never know, just like Hiya.

Carolyn
Oct 19, 2013

Dear Dave,

Thank you for telling the hard truth.
Sometimes the best stories don’t have an end, but a deepening. They always make us feel included and I, neither hunter, nor an opponent of hunters, was included in the pain and the mystery.

Steve

stephen philbrick
Oct 18, 2013

That you tried to find the deer is what matters, having been in the same situation with friends and not finding the deer does bother me, but not half as bad as people I know who, after a few minutes,  give up and don’t bother. And to think he kept going at 71 -  good for him, a great example of a real hunter.

Robert Mancuso
Oct 18, 2013

Could have been a she.  I shot a rabbit when I was hunting with my dad when I was 12, that was 55 years ago.  There was blood.  I’m glad to have had the experience, but don’t need to do it again.

karen jackson
Oct 18, 2013

Dave,
Yes, the story is blunt and unvarnished, but it is also well told. Thanks.
Ed

ed
Oct 18, 2013

This is sad and beautiful. Like the column you wrote about taking a young friend fishing for the first time, I have to say thank you for writing such a powerful, honest piece.

Madeline Bodin

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